Merry Christmas!

So far so good. I'm taking it one step at a time and so far I'm doing well. You can say that I have changed my ways and am making more healthier choices, but every once in a while I do treat myself out to a little sumthin' sumthin'. Now with that said, I feel so much better.

Life is swell. Brian and I have made some life changing decisions and now we and other people are finally noticing our accomplishments. They are so proud and keep urging us on. It feels so good. I don't understand why we didn't make this change a long time ago. Why did it have to be a life or death situation?

Anyway, on another note....the dog is almost human. She freaks me out every day. It's eerie. I've never had a house dog before and just watching her makes me wonder if she is really a human trapped in a puppy's body. There's little things that she does that makes me have to take a second look at what she's doing. For example, she plays with ALL of her toys. She carries them from one bed to the other. She has a bed upstairs and a bed that is placed in the kitchen by the laundry room. She won't let her toys lay on the floor she keeps them in her bed. Another example is when she eats her dry food she tends to scoop them into her mouth and drop it into her water and then eventually eats her food like cereal. I've never had an indoor dog and I've never had a dog that's so smart. She amazes me every day.

Tomorrow is our Christmas Pot Luck that we are having for our department. I bought a crock pot for the gift exchange. I hope who ever gets it puts it to good use because I was almost about to keep that gift...LOL. I think I might swing by the mall this weekend and buy one. I bought that crock pot during the after thanksgiving sales. By the way, I did go crazy that weekend. I was up at 4am. I put on my running shoes and was ready to shop til I drop. I get to leave from work after the party, so tomorrow is going to be a short day.

P.S. wearing braces hurts like a bitch

I'm still here. I had a lot going on. I am coping with a new way of life. So far so good, but really hard to accept. Yeah, it is reeallllyy hard, but it's a matter of life or death and I know my life is more important to me and all my loved ones. I talked a little about it with Mick. He seems to be very understanding and knew where I was coming from. Thanks Mick for listening to my concerns. It meant a lot to me.

Another change......I got a new dog! Yes, a cute little Shar-Pei mix. She is such a clever, smart, obedient, and lovable puppy. Her eyes make me melt. She has those eyes that make her look so sad, but really she's not. She keeps me busy every day. I take her for walks and we go hiking almost every other day. She keeps me very active so that is a big plus.

Thanksgiving is around the corner. This will be the first Thanksgiving that I am not going back home to visit family. That will be a new experience. I have never been in town for the after Thanksgiving sales. Let's see how crazy I get with those sales! Brian and I are planning on having Thanksgiving with his sister. She decided to stay in town also. Man, the other day I went to Fry's and walked out with a 19.76 lb turkey for only $8.49. That's a freaking good deal! I wanted to grab another one to save it for a rainy day, but I knew that second one wouldn't fit in the freezer. I knew we should have bought that freezer when we had the money for it. Damn.

Anyway, we were bored today so we put up the christmas tree. We bought a new tree this year. All those years we lived in apartments we had to settle for the 3 footer, but this year we bought a beautiful 7 foot tree. We went hiking today with the dog and when we came back home we noticed 7 bulbs laying scattered on the living room floor. The cats decided to be mischevious and knocked some down while we were away. They got a good scolding. So far, they haven't gone near the tree again.

gosh, i can't believe how bad the devastation was in new orleans. when i got home i watched a little bit of tv. i didn't know it was that bad. i was shocked at how much looting they have been experiencing. that is crazy! i haven't watched much tv lately and just watching the devasation saddens me. for some reason it makes me think that the world is coming to an end soon. there's so much devastation, violence, war etc. and so many other things that are way too common these days.

anyway, that brought me to thinking about "vernon". i really do hope he and his family are ok. i'm not sure if he lived exactly in new orleans or on the outskirts but either way i hope he made it out of that devastation alive and well.

labor day is coming up. i'm not sure what we are going to do this weekend. more than likely we'll stay home. gas prices are ridiculous to be traveling anywhere. besides, i'm saving for navajo nation fair. we are going for the parade, food, and all the nice stuff that people sell! it's time for me to look for some christmas gifts. hehe. sheesh, if you try and buy turqouise out here you might as well empty your bank account because its an arm and leg out here. the natives who sell at the flea markets out here jack up the prices, so i'd rather go back and get a bargain. i hope its not like last year, i nearly froze my ass off in the morning and nearly melted from the heat in the afternoon.

it's getting hot here again, but at least it's not as humid as it was for the past couple of weeks. i don't know, maybe i got used to the humidity and don't know the difference anymore. i can't stand the heat. ugh! i try and not use the air conditioner in my car these days. i'm trying to conserve my gas since gas has sky rocketed in price. it now takes close to 30 buckeroos to fill up my car...that's ridiculous!

i have to get up early tomorrow and go into work. i'm trying to make up my time for thursday since i have a dental appointment. yep, my yearly checkup. i bet you anything i have a cavity. so far, for two years in a row they have found a cavity or two. my mouth is going to be full of fillings soon. i don't mind going to see the dentist anymore. i used to be horrified. i think i've experienced the worst with going to see the oral surgeon. they had to take out 3 impacted wisdom teeth. that was the worst pain i've ever experienced in my life. now i think i can just about with stand anything.

brian is ok. he's down stairs watching the national geographic channel. they were showing a very interesting documentary about 9/11. it's called, 'inside 9/11'. i tell ya, watching that show gave me goose bumps. i can still remember that day. i didn't go to work. i was scared actually, because back then i worked in a building that had 21 floors, so you can imagine why i didn't. it's crazy, i used to live by myself back then and thoughts were running through my mind. i actually thought the world was gonna end that day. i was scared shitless. i just barricaded my self in my 1 bedroom apartment and watched the boob tube all day. anyway, i need to hit the sack....i'm tired and i'm craving some ice cream...nite

i get up every day knowing that i have to go to some hell hole of a job. i smile and say hi and sometimes i chit chat. i think just about every one at work is full of shit. theres a few that are the kindest and warmest people i've met so far at any job, but then there's the rest. they all put on a show. i feel like smacking some of those fake bitches silly. some of them act so fucking dainty. i swear, they act like their shit don't stink. i get so disgusted sometimes! i can give you so many examples of why i want to smack them silly but, i'll just end up writing a book. i get tired sometimes. why can't i work with decent people.

my best friend/coworker and i are making a proposal to change our weekly schedule. we are hoping this proposal gets accepted, but honestly in the back of my mind i'm thinking that our request is going to get shot down. if it does, the shit is going to hit the fan.

july 25, 2005....i can't believe it's been a year and some days since my friend's boyfriend's death. she was with him for 15 years. yet, it still feels like he's around. especially, when she invites us to dinners or birthday parties. it feels like he's going to walk out of a room or come in from the front door. sadly, he passed away while he was tubing down the salt river last year. the main culprit....alcohol. he didn't come home that saturday night and the next morning the investigators found him and pronounced him dead. she tells me that she misses him so much. i don't know how it feels to be in her shoes, but she's a very strong person. she tells me that she's lonely and i tell her that she can't be by her self for the rest of her life. especially, since her boys are in highschool now and will probably be moving out. she tells me that she knows this, but then she says that she wouldn't know what to do if she did me that special person because all she ever knew was her late boyfriend. he was her first boyfriend, first love, first every thing and father to their 2 boys. on july 25, we had a little get together for her boyfriend to celebrate the life that he had. man, he sure is missed. rest in peace roland....

man, i'm so fucking lazy these days. i don't have enough time during the day. most of my time is spent at work. my hours suck and i need a new job. i've been thinking about moving on. i hate work. i always hated it, but i only stay because i know i have bills to pay.

i've been sick for the past 2 weeks. i came down with a viral infection and my throat has been giving me hell for the past week. theres been days when i couldn't eat a thing because it hurt so much to swallow. i went to the dr, but all they gave me was some 800 mg ibuprofen for the pain. what kind of shit is that? all it does is knock me out for a couple of hours.

i haven't been doing much with the house lately. we haven't touched the other room. i think we got too lazy and so tired of trying to fix shit. i'm thinking of painting that room cranberry red. i have all these ideas of what i can do with that room, but like i said i'm tired of messing with that shit. we still need to tear out the stuff in the bathroom too, but we are probably going to wait until next year to do all the major work.

we were supposed to go back to the rez this weekend, but our lazy asses just don't feel like it. my coworker is already planning for the september fair. she took that friday off so she can set up camp by the side of road out in window rock. it's kind of funny how we get so gung ho about shit like that. i guess it's such a blessing sometimes to see so many greasy indian faces. so, i guess i might go with, but not sure. i don't plan that far ahead.....

tomorrow is friday. i'm not sure if i can stand being at work tomorrow. i about lost it today. i was so close. there's just some days that i feel like i'm about to give up and say fuck it i'm going home. i don't know why i let certain things get to me. sometimes i think maybe i'm too emotional. i let people run all over me. i was never like this. somewhere in my life i changed. i remember when i was a hard headed, sometimes rude, outspoken, let me have my way kind of girl, but now, i feel like this helpless pup with it's tail between it's legs. i don't know when i changed and i don't know why i changed. sometimes i think maybe my ex changed me. i can't blame him for my behavior because our relationship ended 6 years ago, but then again, that boy put me through hell and back. he abused me emotionally and physically. and stupid me i stayed with that jerk for a long time. i think it was because i felt like i couldn't live life by myself. after all, we were practically married, but yet all that time i was with him he was cheating. to this day i still think about him and wonder why he did that to me. i can tell you this...this kind of shit can really damage a person. especially if you put your all into the relationship. you believed every word, you believed that when he said that he loved you that he meant it. i think he just liked the attention. i forgive him though. i forgive him for all the awful things he did to me. i forgive him...only because i know that sometimes in his life he will remember and regret.

i've been fooling around with my computer in the past 2 weeks. i'm actually spending more time on the computer than usual. i actually logged onto my yahoo messenger last weekend and i actually had a ball chatting with past yahoo buddies. back in the days i was on the computer 24/7. i had a job that required me to sit in front of the computer logging onto software connected to the internet. i used to be on the internet all the time. i think i was chatting more on yahoo than working. it was fun and i met some really interesting people. i met a few in person, but the majority of them just wanted something else instead, so that stopped.

i don't know...i think back then i was in a really emotional state. i had a lot of personal things going on in my life and yahoo was the one thing that really kept me busy...that and my drinking buddies. i think i pratically went bar hopping every weekend. pretty soon faces became familiar and eventually those familiar faces became my drinking buddies. it was cool. i had a lot of fun and most of the time ended up partying at somebody's house or end up at the 49ers in tempe. i'm not sure if that is still there...haven't been out in a while....a very long while, but anyway, i'm just reminincsing here. i should be getting to bed. i had to reinstall my windows again because i did a oopsie but now things are better. well, i better get ready for bed. i have a long day tomorrow....

my posts are getting more and more sporatic. i have lot of things to do. i just don't know where to start. we've been in the house for almost 2 months now and we are still not done putting away stuff. so i've been busy. i haven't checked my email in a long time either. i can't wait until i can relax again with out having to worry about fixing this or painting that. i hope you all are doing better than i am....